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1. Kris June 12, 2007 1:03 am

   Sorry to hear about that nasty experience, Nick…

   I wouldn’t even classify that as public cruising. It’s more like a total invasion of your privacy! You should have made some noise or yelled at that guy to embarrass him. Alternatively, complain to CapitaMall and get them to close up those gaps in between cubicles.

   A man is definitely entitled to his solo time when answering the call of nature!

   All the best for the St. James party - I’m sure it will be most fabulous! Thanks for doing a community service by raising awareness regarding HIV/AIDS!

   P/S: That is a MOST interesting-looking faucet. Bet it was not found inside one of those Raffles City or CitiLink toilets eh?! ;)

2. Van June 15, 2007 1:37 am

   Hey guys!!! Ok i wish i could type something very intellectual and insightful but unfortunately,i’ve just come out of a pdtn night run so i’m gonna sound like a total idiot! (But hey,i’m a queercast supporter yeh!)

   firstly,my god….i am soooo sorry that happened to you Nick! i cant even begin to fathom how you feel…its like a girl meeting a flasher! but have you watch the sweetest thing by cameron diaz? there was smth similar like that where she got dick juice (i forgot the word) sprayed in her eye in the toilet.but yeh lah..you should have damn well kicked the guys ass or at least said,”are you staring at smth you’ll never have?”

   secondly,(ok my brain is really not functioning),what is top and bottom???! CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME???! I am an innocent young woman *blink blink*. and 50-50??! oi! i wanna know lah! cuz i sorta know but then got confused…and i must know! (for reasons of my own HAHA)

   thirdly,i totally think that there should be a gay magazine,the entire hype about being skittish towards homosexuality in singapore is bogus crap.i’ve heard the statements made by (we all know who) and that is sacrilegeous.Esp with the case about applying for a relief teacher.Who are we to judge,to discrimate? Trust me,i’ve met tons of straight people who are so fucked up yet theyre not penalized.And the gay for a day thing in Britain is very interesting.Tho how the homophobics react to it is another matter,lets hope it goes good! “No good deed goes unpunished,No act of charity goes unresented,Did i have good intentions? Or was i just doing good to seek attention? No good deed will i do again!” *Wicked The Musical*

   Fourthly,i like psycho uncles! Haha. Seriously tho,i am very convicted about this diva thing for me personally.Because i feel that the perception and external portrayal of a diva is very contradictory,often misjudged or stereotyped.What i mean is that i think people who go around behaving like theyre “all that” just to appear so glamorous and fantastic and spite others and get this image are shit.But sometimes,this coming from personal experience,one does get hurt due to vulnerabilities and succumb to their anger or bitterness and as a form of protection and self-defence,may put on that “mean girls” poker face which can be falsely interpretated as diva when its only a theory of ,” you hurt me,this is my shield”.

   And there is a party at St James???! Can someone come up with a bright idea to fool the dragonlady of my mother??! (no worries,she is a computer fool)

   Luv,Vanessa.

   P.S.See you guys at the party tomorrow!

3. Rick June 16, 2007 5:03 am

   Sorry to hear about the experience Nick, but sex in toilets is actually quite common. Heck, you can see all the places to find sex around the world at http://www.cruisingforsex.com. It is quite common for some “straight” oollege students to go looking for some action in the toilets. Certain buildings on campuses have a “notoriety” for finding sex. It ranges from just a j/o to full-out fucking. I’ve seen it all.

   Before I came out of the closet I cruised the toilets. Porn that features toilets and glory holes are still some of my favorite stuff to watch.

   I loved your show. It was my first time to hear you guys; I’ll be back again. I anticipate visiting friends in Singapore next year; I have four friends in Singapore that I actually met here in Minnesota in the USA. It would be great to meet the two of you at the same time.

   Best regards,
   Rick Simon

4. nick June 17, 2007 9:45 am

   hi guys

   thanks for all your comments! keep them coming!

   love to all
   nick.D

5. jason August 10, 2007 11:15 pm

   oh, city hall seems a popular place for that, i have two incidents similar to report, both quite a few years ago.

   1. was on the toilet and saw some guys sandles in the next cubicle, then he pushed a dentist mirror ( circular mirror on a short stick, like the ones he checks your fillings with) under the partition. I saw this and tried to get out but had to clean up first. Saw him around the centre and reported him but nothing happened.

   2. Second time, sitting on toilet just stsring in space and happened to look sideways and saw a JC kid looking over the top of partition, he saw me and went away.

   so how did you deal with your issue, did you leave immediately or just carry on until you finished?

   jason

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